Weekly Competition #17

11 January 2019

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The Girl Who Can't Forgive

This week, we'd like you to use your open-mindedness skill to think about forgiveness. How would it feel if you couldn't forgive anything at all, not even the tiniest thing? How would that change your life and your relationships? We'd like you to think about this from the point of view of an imaginary 'girl who can't forgive'. We don't want to know what she can't forgive, but how she feels and what it's like to be her.
ENTRIES MUST BE LESS THAN 150 WORDS LONG*

Winners will be announced next Friday. Good luck!

*We're after concise, empathetic entries! You can check that it is under 150 words by copying it into Word, highlighting it and seeing the word count in the bottom left hand corner.

Comments (92)

  • Notley-Green-logo-250x250.jpg rational_engineer
    Notley Green Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    It feels as if she is feeling sorry for herself. And that she is very angry and lonely as she has no one to play with. If this were me I would be feeling sorry and angry and fustrated and lonely and left out

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  • Notley-Green-logo-250x250.jpg neat_maths
    Notley Green Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I think that she will become very lonely and it would probably feel very sorry for herself and very let down. If it were me I would probably really really try hard to not get in a argument and I probably would not talk that much and let other people do the talking. However other people have different thoughts and they probably think different from me.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg entertaining_strawberry
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    Frustrated, annoyed and lonely. 3 words to describe my feelings. I have no friends - probably because they all hurt me- but I don't care. I spend most nights making pretended arguments with all the people I know; reasons keep coming and coming through my head. People hate me, my Mum hates me! But I know I'm right. They bump me, their fault! My teachers tell me not to backchat, their the ones hurting me! I cant find a reason to forgive ANYBODY, friends, pets, teachers, parents or strangers. Though I am lonely, nobody to look up to.Its not FAIR!

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg creative_ostrich
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I think she will feel distraught and really upset because if she doesn’t forgive anyone she wouldn’t have any friend and will be really lonely 😔

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg joyous_potato
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I agree that wen people who get hert will tell the police that somone has hert them so the police come and sort it out so that person is happy so the bad person will go in jail

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg resourceful_drawing
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I know this might be silly but how do i enter?

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg ambitious_opportunity
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    She must feel constantly angry as she must be bullied and lonely. She must take her anger out on everyone else to make an emotional barricade so she can hopefully one day feel nothing. Her life must be a living hell.

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg gentle_coconut
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I would be very lonely if I could not say sorry or apologise for things and I probably won’t have no friends but if I couldn’t apologise then I won’t say anything horrible

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg intellectual_apple
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    She would feel very sad and lonely I would feel sorry for her but at the same time I would feel happy because if I was her I would be able to remember anything like when I first got a dog.

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg majestic_dragonfly
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I think she would feel angry and very lonely because if her friend, that she made, did something wrong and she couldn’t forgive that friend therefore that could make her feel sad, angry and lonely. I would really feel sorry for her if I knew what she was going through.

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg inventive_sparrow
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    If I was a girl that never forgived any one I would propable feel like I was the odd one out and that I’m a bit weird, I would feel like I don’t care about any one but on the inside I deeply care about every single person.

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg glad_editor
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    If I couldn’t forgive I wouldn’t have any friends and I would probably feel bad

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg rational_butterfly
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    It would make someone feel like they don’t have any friends because everyone gets in a argument or a debate at some point

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg wise_world
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    It would effect my life terribly. I probably wouldn’t like anyone or have any friends. I would be mad at a lot of people and I would be lonely 😔. I wouldn’t have a very happy life because I wouldn’t have friends. 😭😭😭😭😓😓😓😢😢😢😖😖😖😔😔😔😔😔😔😣😣

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  • Tiff-Avatar.jpg Tiff @ the BNC 11 Jan 2019 in reply to resourceful_drawing's comment

    You just write your answer as a comment!

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  • Beverley-St-Nicholas-logo-250x250.jpg inspiring_dinosaur
    Beverley St Nicholas Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    In my opinion she might be very lonely and maybe suffer depression because nobody will whant to be her friend. She could feel very feel down about herself because she has no friends and the arguments could lead to people going to jail

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  • Tiff-Avatar.jpg Tiff @ the BNC 11 Jan 2019

    Hi BNC members,

    Try to give a little detail about WHY she would feel the way you suggest. For example, if she is is angry is that because she keeps thinking about the things she can't forgive rather than letting them go.

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  • Richmond-Hill-logo-250x250.jpg outstanding_wolf
    Richmond Hill Academy 11 Jan 2019

    If I was that girl who could not forgive I would have no friends people would try avoid me.I would feel melancholony,unloved and crestfallen people will not even believe me or forgive me I think this because in my life before I didn 't forgive so I have expirienced what it is like really it is not a very good position.

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  • Notley-Green-logo-250x250.jpg noble_nectarine
    Notley Green Primary School B 11 Jan 2019

    If I were not able to forgive, I would have a terrible life because of a few things. Firstly, being unable to forgive would cause many friendship problems because you would never be able to show forgiveness for anything or anyone. Secondly, I would have mood swings and always be unhappy because I would feel guilty about my actions of unforgiving mishaps from the past. Thirdly, I would have troubles within my family, which would give me bad social skills while communicating with other people. This would make me feel miserable and lonely.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg plucky_cat
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I am frustrated people keep knocking me.I have no friends because nobody likes not even my best friend hates me more than anything.Life is just not fair.aI can’t get a reason to forgive all the people who have hurt me Why does my brother and sister hate me .I am starting to a bit lonely.Ive been having flashbacks of when people have hurt me.When I go for my break people start to hurt me on purpose and the I get annoyed by it.It happens constant.Im starting to have no friends I have no one to look up to

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  • Notley-Green-logo-250x250.jpg proactive_reflection
    Notley Green Primary School B 11 Jan 2019

    I feel devastated because I can't forgive anyone even though I really want to. It would effect my life by it I wanted to forgive a friend of family I couldn't but deep inside I know that I should be able to forgive everybody.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg talented_cookie
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    Melancholy, annoyed and alone. I may feel that because nobody cares even if they didn't mean it. It just keeps going through my head on and on. Everyone in my family HATES me just because I didn't forgive them even if it was one of the tiniest things they didn't want to say or do. Everyone always are still going to ignore me and never forgive me. It's not FAIR the way they treat me it is like I am a ghost! Everyday at school some people could be walking somewhere and pushing in front of me like they don't care!

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg jubilant_horse
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    I am so angry, lonely and straight up horrified. I was on the way home from school and some STUPID girl in my year pushed me over! I will never forget this traumatic experience... I hate humans. Whats wrong with me? I cant forgive myself now. UGH!

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  • Ormiston-Bushfield-logo-250x250.jpg modest_boysenberry
    Ormiston Bushfield Academy 11 Jan 2019

    I feel as if I have a heavy burden on my shoulder. All the pain and anger bundled up inside me because I can never forgive. I can't talk to anyone because everybody hates me, even my family. I’ve lost all my friends. Every day I go to school, dragging my feet the whole way. At lunch time I go to the library to get lost in a book, to escape reality, to forget my suffering. I just keep that little demon inside me locked in a cage, but I know it will escape. I exist in this world but I just want to live. I want to laugh and dance and smile. Am I even capable of that? This is my life, my burden. I'll just wonder this world, isolated with only my hatred for company.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg jolly_duck
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    ARE YOU JOKING?! I'm walking out the classroom and a girl from my class walks into me! One thing that I cannot do is FORGIVE people!! Lonely, downhearted and blue. 3 words to describe how i feel at this moment. Whatever people do to me make a long lasting impression for me. This is why it is so hard. I cannot forgive anyone... I don't know if you will believe me at this but. I cant even forgive my parents. I know i'm the odd one in this world. But the way i am will not change. Don't think i'm weird but I have no friends... Believe it or not, I always sit in my room and think of forgiving people but I never get round to doing it.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg buzzing_atom
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019 in reply to resourceful_drawing's comment

    frustrated,annoyed and depressed thats three ways to describe how im feeling right now.[i feel like this because i cant forgive anyone and i hate it]i always get picked on at school[because i cant forgive anyone and i dont know why] and i dont have any friends i used to have loads but when they started joking around with me i couldnt forgive them.i hate it and i dont think i will ever be able to feel the same way i once did.

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  • Boutcher-logo-250x250.jpg unconventional_brain
    Boutcher C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    She shouldn’t be upset, she shouldn’t be angry; she must be strong. There’s no forgiveness inside her; she needs to remain calm, no matter what. Keep dreaming, keep apologising, but she’ll never mean it. Her forgiveness is gone, and it is gone for good. She is angry, she is upset, she isn’t strong, but she really can’t help it. It’s not her fault, she doesn’t mean it, but her forgiveness is lost in this big, big world. What does she have to live for if she can’t forgive and forget? What can she do about it? No matter how hard she tries she will never get her forgiveness back. She feels alone, she feels different. She is the odd one out and she knows it. No one will ever understand her; she doesn’t even understand herself. It is like her life is gone, so what is the point of living?

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg powerful_robin
    Ormiston Park Academy 11 Jan 2019

    I feel hopeless. No matter how hard I try, I cannot forgive anyone. If someone apologises for something, I seem to hold a grudge against them and never move on. I can’t make any new friends because everyone knows what I am like. I seem to cling on to the past… It feels like you have no one to talk to, because they all assume that you cannot give second chances. I feel apprehensive every day and it makes me upset when I can not accept an apology. Sometimes I wonder, why I can’t forgive anyone? I make a big deal over nothing, and I wish I seemed normal… Even my family are starting to worry and avoid me... How would you feel if you were me?

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg determined_orange
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    Walking down the old corridor that I always walk through. No-one barely talks to me. What is wrong with me? Why do I have to be different? It kills me everyday. Everyone has the power to forgive, everyone except me! All the students back away and never reply to my greetings. Am I a monster? It would make a big difference if I left the school. No, I shouldn't, why am I the one who worries about everything. Well, I am doing the right because if you just say 'sorry it's like all the pain will go and that's not how it works. But, why am I felling abandoned? There are lots of questions that are floating around my head that are un answered. v v b

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg resourceful_drawing
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019 in reply to resourceful_drawing's comment

    URGH why does school exist!Another day of another sorry.Again i was told by my teacher to forgive them.I said no.For some reason the word OK just doesnt come out of my mouth.I cant forgive i cant forget.Why cant ibe a normal girl mistakes happen and i know that.If i know that why cant i say its ok its fine i forgive you?I hear its ok in my head but NO out of my mind.
    I would feel confused because i wouldnt know what was happening.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg marvellous_moment
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 11 Jan 2019

    This morning someone barged past and made me fall over and I will never forgive them for that like I do to everybody else!

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  • BritishCouncil-logo-250x250.jpg incredible_environment
    British Council School, Madrid 12 Jan 2019

    Right now I am hating humans. I want to forgive all, but it's imposible. Right now I want to disappear, be alone. But , if I don't want to forgive someone or something it's because it's my decision and I want to solve the problem. I am so angry that I don't want to talk with anyone , everyone it's worried about me , but why taht doesn't make sense. I don't have Friends.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg successful_cat
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 12 Jan 2019

    It feels like she feels sad for what she has done and she might feel sorry.

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  • Michael-Faraday-logo-250x250.jpg super_drawing
    Michael Faraday School 12 Jan 2019

    Lonely, i can't make friends due to one reason: i can't forgive. Every time I argue with a friend i am unable to forgive. Which results into me losing everyone. When my mum tells me to do something guess what I do? I just don't listen what's the point. School. The place where everyone learns but not for me. School is the place where I make the rules. All teachers have me I'm always sent to the office and I always get a good chat with the assistants.
    To be honest I want to forgive but I just can't.

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  • Birchwood-logo-250x250.jpg efficient_eagle
    Birchwood C of E Primary School 12 Jan 2019

    I feel devastated because I can't forgive myself and anyone . I'm very very angry because someone in a different year pushed me... I hate humans what's wrong with me. But I hate life i hate it i hate .?

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  • Ravenscroft-logo-250x250.jpg adventurous_painting
    Ravenscroft Primary School 12 Jan 2019

    I’m always irritated and rejected. My life just seems to be tough all the time. It frustrates me to see people with friends, who care about your feelings; who understand everything that you are going through. I don’t. In fact, I don’t even have regular friends any more. They just thought I was a grudge-holder. I even sometimes feel like I ruin people’s lives. I make them feel so bad about themselves. Maybe I just don’t fit in. Maybe they are better off without me in their lives. This problem could affect my future. But they’ll see. I’ll make them know that they shouldn’t have bothered me. They are the ones making me worse each day. So I’ll never excuse them. I’ll never pardon them. When they realise what they’ve done, they’ll be sorry. They have no idea what it is like to be me.

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  • Notley-Green-logo-250x250.jpg active_dolphin
    Notley Green Primary School B 13 Jan 2019

    I wouldn’t have any friends and sometimes people do things they don’t mean to do.

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  • Ormiston-Bushfield-logo-250x250.jpg introspective_bilberry
    Ormiston Bushfield Academy 13 Jan 2019

    Isolated, destroyed and straight up angry, I sit on my bed, watching myself in the mirror. My emotions overwhelming me, I struggle to get a grip over myself. I hate myself. I am always getting into fights with my friends and gradually losing them; it’s heart-breaking to have to sit through and watch and know that I can’t do anything about it. My teachers and parents are always shouting and having a go at me, yet I don’t know why… It’s not my fault that other people make me angry. It’s not my fault that I am always downhearted and feel like crying. Other people make me feel this way, so why am I getting the blame?

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  • The-Ruth-Gorse-logo-250x250.jpg affable_weaver
    The Ruth Gorse Academy 13 Jan 2019

    I walk into the school, faces quickly dart away. A reason of which I am not familiar. I sit at a desk with a person who was once my friend, not a friend anymore- last week she forgot to text me. That'll show her! I bet she is all lonely without me. The girl next to me stands up and moves to sit with another girl in my class, they seem to be happily talking. Is it her that's lonely, or is it me. I carry on with the rest of my day, thinking about it. I can't share it with anyone. They're all mean to me- that's why I don't forgive them.

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  • Noel-Park-logo-250x250.jpg interesting_tiger
    Noel Park Primary School 13 Jan 2019

    She will felt very furious ; she has no friends to play with her , she might not sob when she is lonely and bored and this might what she thought of "GOD why is nobody playing with me you know what i might be playing on the swing by myself i am so MAD AT THOSE PEOPLE , who don't play with me UUGGHH..."Is like she went to far with her feelings, "if someone won't play with me i will be so SOOO annoying !!! And this the worst part I would be cruel to littles kiddies with small small arms MUAHHAAAHAA ." That was the thought of her feelings!

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  • RockcliffeManor-logo-250x250.jpg tranquil_quince
    Rockliffe Manor Primary School 13 Jan 2019

    I would feel lonely, nervous and unsafe. I would feel lonely because all my friends would never even speak to me because I never forgave them so I would have nobody to have by my side. I would feel nervous because everybody around will remind them of the girl that never forgave them when they look at me. I would feel unsafe because the people I don't forgive might tell there other friends and they might hurt me or they might tell there parents and there parents could always stare at me and make me feel uncomfortable.

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  • Michael-Faraday-logo-250x250.jpg cheerful_leaves
    Michael Faraday School 13 Jan 2019

    Forgotten, excruciation, secluded which of these words describe how I'm feeling? Nobody likes me, probably because I don't fit in as much as others. Why does life have to be so hard? Imagine a girl that doesn't have anyone to look up to, who is disliked by everyone, who can't even forgive. Well that girl is me! Being me is like wanting to have suicidal thoughts. Even my own mother hates my guts. It's getting worse by the minute. Why cant I forgive? No one would ever want to be me!

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  • Boutcher-logo-250x250.jpg steady_skill
    Boutcher C of E Primary School 13 Jan 2019

    "I want to forgive, but I have no friends and I can't forgive myself... uurgh ...life is terrible for me!"

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  • Weston-Favell-logo-250x250.jpg honorable_conclusion
    Weston Favell Academy 13 Jan 2019

    Sorry again. I keep accidentally posting comments. I'll start again. My friends have all deserted me but i don't really care. They had all upset me and I could not forgive them for it.I don't know why. I get mad other the smallest of things and everyone hates me - even my own relatives- for it. I hate them to. I also feel lonely because there is no one who will help me or guide me. I'm vulnerable as well and feel like everyone is so awful. I even feel angry at myself for not letting things go so I can have friends. I suppose I'll just have to start again.

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  • Newbury-Park-logo-250x250.jpg digital_armadillo
    Newbury Park Primary School 13 Jan 2019

    I believe that it will be terrible if you couldn't forgive a person because if someone like you best best friend spilled water on you not by purpose then you get all mad then you tell her that you are not her friend anymore people will think that your imature and you cant deal a accident that's why think you should forgive and forget

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  • Ormiston-Bushfield-logo-250x250.jpg radical_king
    Ormiston Bushfield Academy 14 Jan 2019

    Lonely-frustrated-regretful, these are only a few words to describe my feelings. I would have nobody to take care of me, nobody to enjoy some wonderful times with me and nobody to protect me. Life is terrible because of this. Life is terrible because of my poor life decisions. Life is terrible because I could not forgive.

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  • Portobello-logo-250x250.jpg honorable_bilberry
    Portobello High School 14 Jan 2019

    I don't know what's wrong.
    I just can't do it.
    I just can't seem to forgive people!

    Even if it's the smallest things
    I just can't do it.

    I feel lonely and scared every day that I will ruin things with people.
    Every time I make a new friend I am always worried I'll mess everything up.
    Every day I walk past people I can't forgive.
    They always give me bad looks and they ALWAYS avoid me.
    I feel sad all the time.
    I sometimes fall into anxiety and depression because it's hard to forgive.

    I hate being me. I wish I could be someone else.
    People don't realise how bad it is being me.
    I wish I could start life again.
    Make a better impression.
    But my wishes...
    never come true.

    Life at home isn't good as well
    I never really talk to my family.
    I don't really get the chance.
    I hope I could learn to forgive.
    Then I can be normal.

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  • Hanson-logo-250x250.jpg logical_bird
    Hanson Academy 14 Jan 2019

    In my honest opinion I would feel very dismayed, overturned, unsettle 3 words to describe her feelings because if she can’t forgive anybody like her friends or her teacher or her parents which really perturbs her life and others or when she has an argument with her friends or maybe that’s why has no friends because of all the arguments or if someone makes a mistake and they are asking for forgiveness she can’t give that to them which may hurt people on the inside if that was me and I had arguments with my parents or siblings or family or friends we may fall out or lose each others trust and maybe the consequences may be life changing for her and everybody around which could affect her into a situation which maybe she might have not even have thought of. Dear BNC I hope you enjoy my entry.

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg fearless_tree
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I think she would feel lonely and when she sees her old friends playing she would be heartbroken.Her relationship with other people would be very cold.

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg good_moth
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    She would probably be very lonely as if you can’t even forgive the tiniest thing so people wouldn’t want to be friends with her as if they do something accidentally they will never be forgiven

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg steadfast_moon
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    Neglection-the only thing I receive in this world. I have no friends-better than having cruel friends- and I can’t find anyone in this world to trust! They “apparently” didn’t mean to step on my foot and “ apperantly” didn’t steal my expensive stationary... they are a bunch of STUPID LIARS! Never trust anyone; this is my motto in life that I do and believe so I am not fooled by rude, unforgivable people! I can’t forgive my mum, for “accidentally” spilling her drink on me and I can’t forgive my harmful dog for peeing on my designer clothes! I wish I had someone in this world, but if this world is filled with horrible people, it’s better off without them!

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg considerate_grasshopper
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    2 words: frustrated and isolated. I have no friends; that is alright, though, as long as no one hurts my feelings. I deeply wish I could forgive. But I can’t.
    If no one sabotaged me, I would be happy. No one knows how it feels to be cut off from the whole world, and when I do try to interact with almost anything, I get injured; mostly emotionally. I am used to it.
    People often remind me to forgive. I disagree; when I get hurt, I get hurt on purpose. Of course, many (almost everyone) state that they didn’t mean to. However I do not fall for this - which is the problem.
    It seems sorrowful to see someone lonely.
    Despite this vision, the truth is different.

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg great_brain
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I feel guilty,isolated and sad.No-one will want to be my friend now,I shouldn’t have done this,I lost so many friends because of my awful behaviour now I need to be better

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg harmonious_seahorse
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I feel alone; I have no friends. I have isolated myself from the world. My friends bully me, we have arguments all the time, we just cannot ever get along. This upsets me so much; all I want is to be happy, just to be like a normal child who has friends. It’s like I am a rag doll who gets pushed around because I cannot forgive. I want to forgive.
    I wish I had friends that is all I want. Everyone loathes me. My mum, my dad,my brother, my friends, my teacher. The list goes on! I try my best to be nice to people, I just cannot fit in. My terrible deeds have left me in this state

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  • Oasis-logo-250x250.jpg entertaining_signature
    Oasis Academy Don Valley 14 Jan 2019 in reply to logical_bird's comment

    She might feel lonely, dismayed because if she can't forgive anyone she is just a stranger because she is angry with everyone which means she is left out.

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  • Oasis-logo-250x250.jpg jazzed_jabuticaba
    Oasis Academy Don Valley 14 Jan 2019

    I would feel lonley because I would have no freinds as I could never forgive them when I fall out with them. I would feel angry most of the time because when I fall out with them I would never forgive them and when that happens its a form of anger.

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  • Oasis-logo-250x250.jpg entertaining_signature
    Oasis Academy Don Valley 14 Jan 2019

    She might fee l lonely dismayed because she cant forgive anyone so she is just a stranger, who doesn't have a proper life

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg reliable_atom
    Ormiston Park Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I'd pity myself and feel very upset because forgive people then i'd feel very guilty and sorry for them because they would feel like they've done something terrible and would be shameful for something that they have done even though what they did might be not that bad.

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  • Oasis-logo-250x250.jpg coherent_owl
    Oasis Academy Don Valley 14 Jan 2019

    Emotionless,alone and afraid it would be hard for me because I wouldn't know what to do because no one would want to be my friend and no one would ever want to talk to me

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg magical_fox
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I am always lonely and regected. Taday was a nightmare, I don’t think my best friend likes, I mean just because I didn’t forgive her and everyone else doesn’t mean I don’t like them.
    So there I sat by myself head on my knees , tears trickling down my face as everyone went passed,smiling and laughing but I was there in the shadows.
    I close my hoping it’s a dream, hoping when I open my eyes everyone wants to be my friend. But no it was the same. Now I know that I should forgive.

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg genius_duck
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    In my opinion is that the girl will be very lonely and nobody will be her friend because she will be described and she will be with no one to talk to.😞😞😔😔😔😢😢

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg generous_recipe
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    Dear diary,
    Today was horrible, I was all by myself without anyone at break and then we had to go in groups for our work and no one wanted to be with me! Not being able to have any friends is horrible and everyone is avoiding me. Even the teachers! My life is so unfair because it’s not even my fualt that I can’t forgive people. Imagine having no friends (it’s not very nice). Being avoided for something that is not my fault, my life is so sad. My parents don’t like me, they only love my sister. “She’s amazing,” “So kind!” exclaimed my parents. I was utterly disappointed that they would push me aside.
    Prayer: God please lift this curse from me so I can have friends and be approachable and my parents to love me. Amen.

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg curious_anteater
    Ormiston Park Academy 14 Jan 2019

    I would be totally lonely, heartbroken and punctured in the heart after hearing the news. i would feel lost in an different world. Not being allowed to forgive your friends over something a long time ago. this could mean me,not getting an friend ever again.

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  • Michael-Faraday-logo-250x250.jpg shy_context
    Michael Faraday School 14 Jan 2019

    In my opinion I thin that she will feel guilty, frustrated and extremely really upset I feel this way because if I wouldn't forgive someone I would feel very bad if they didn't mean to do it. On the other hand if the person did something really terrible that couldn't be forgive I would understand because I think I wouldn't be able to forgive them as well. If I couldn't feel sorry even for a silly little word I would also feel very embarrassed because it would be extremely selfish if someone did that. Also if I was her I would be very ashamed of my self and what I have done.

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  • Boutcher-logo-250x250.jpg sympathetic_olive
    Boutcher C of E Primary School 14 Jan 2019

    It would be useless your relationships would go like feathers in the wind. you would feel terrible if you by mistake heart someone's feelings as they wouldn't forgive you.

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  • New-Horizons-logo-250x250.jpg considerate_grasshopper
    New Horizons Children's Academy 14 Jan 2019

    Frustrated. Isolated. Sorrowful.
    I deeply wish I could forgive.
    Every day I wake up with a lump in my throat. Dreading going to school. It's difficult to watch people with friends, who care about you. My friends? They neglect me all the time. I just don't seem to fit in - to be suitable for this world. This is why it's hard for me to forgive. Lately, I haven't found a single reason to forgive my mum for spilling coffee on my desk.
    I just absolutely wish I had someone in this world. Someone who could understand me.

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  • Upton-Cross-logo-250x250.jpg talkative_attitude
    Upton Cross Primary School 14 Jan 2019

    I would feel lonely,angry and annoyed.I would feel lonely because if I never forget or forgive I wouldn't want to be round someone who hurt me. Annoyed because I always have the same feeling s

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  • Upton-Cross-logo-250x250.jpg talkative_attitude
    Upton Cross Primary School 14 Jan 2019

    Part 2
    At that time. Angry because I have things that will trigger me easily.

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  • Arnhem-Wharf-logo-250x250.jpg mindful_skill
    Arnhem Wharf Primary School 14 Jan 2019

    I will never forgive you
    This leads me to no friends
    I pretend it isn’t hurting
    And I do not care
    About other people, it does not hurt me
    This is because I’ve got no friends
    So all I care about is myself
    It seems I cannot keep it in me any longer
    But I can’t undo the past
    3 words people describe me are aggressive, bossy and rude
    My enemie is the word forgiveness

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  • Arnhem-Wharf-logo-250x250.jpg happy_guava
    Arnhem Wharf Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    I am a girl who will never forgive
    you can go and beg me and even plead
    I will not forgive even if you were my mother
    I will not forgive even my father
    I hate everyone who always hated me
    I even hated everyone in my family
    I will never forget this day when I got hurt
    I even tore my own school skirt
    I am the girl who shall never forgive
    Even if you beg and even plead.

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  • Arnhem-Wharf-logo-250x250.jpg artistic_opinion
    Arnhem Wharf Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    It would be sad because if my friends had done something wrong and I couldn't forgive I would probably end up with no friends. I could imagine if my mum made a mistake and she said sorry but i could not forgive her she would probably not talk to me

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  • Arnhem-Wharf-logo-250x250.jpg stellar_lion
    Arnhem Wharf Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    I would have no friends. Very lonely.

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  • Arnhem-Wharf-logo-250x250.jpg smart_journalist
    Arnhem Wharf Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    I will do not forgive anyone or anything.(Not in real life)
    i feel like everyone hates me,and i hate them too. Nothing makes me happy, not even my family.
    I am alone. I am a none forgiver.

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  • Hanson-logo-250x250.jpg logical_bird
    Hanson Academy 15 Jan 2019

    i hope i win the competition because i really put my heart and soul into this please BNC can you please let me win my teachers will be very proud of me that i have put a lot of effort into this from the bottom of my heart

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  • Bewsey-Lodge-logo-250x250.jpg marvellous_banana
    Bewsey Lodge Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    I hate it when people don't understand me ,it's so fusturating !

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg outgoing_pineapple
    Ormiston Park Academy 15 Jan 2019

    if i was the girl i would feel extremely sad because she could of known the person for her whole life and then because of one tiny thing your whole life will go down in crumbles . not only this but i would feel lonely because every friend i had i had a chance of loosing.

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg wonderful_poem
    Ormiston Park Academy 15 Jan 2019

    I would feel left out because you will see everyone is happy and joyful in the playground and you wish it could be you and it makes you feel you have no friends

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  • Ormiston-Park-logo-250x250.jpg powerful_robin
    Ormiston Park Academy 15 Jan 2019

    I feel distressed, displeased and frustrated. I cannot forgive anybody, i try so hard but it is very difficult to do something when you know deep down it is impossible. I cant imagine what it would be to be someone else when im so used to the disappointment in my own life. I always think, is it possible for me to forgive someone today? But the answer is always no. For example, yesterday someone nudged me as i was going up to my lesson and i made a big drama out of it, like i always do. I ALWAYS make everything a huge drama. I wish it could be different but its not. I wish i could forgive people. It would make my life a lot easier. I would make new friends. Wow. I wonder what that would be like. Imagine, not having everyone making an assumption about you. I really want to change. I feel lonely and everyone is avoiding me and I'm sick of it. I feel so devastated. I feel like im stuck in a jail cell which is the living reality of my life and i can't escape. I wonder. What would you do if you were me?

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  • Upton-Cross-logo-250x250.jpg thoughtful_raisin
    Upton Cross Primary School 15 Jan 2019

    I world be really sad and me life
    Would be horrible😥😭😭😭

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg polite_politics
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    i would be very very lonely i wouldn't be open to change so i would have no friends and would be in detention alot and i might even be driven crazy by other children

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg positive_potato
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    It is hard being me ,I have many different traits but unfortunately forgiveness isn't one of them. I have no friends, but they should know it is their fault they bump me in the corridor, their fault they tease me when I am upset, NOT MINE!

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg dependable_eagle
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I am the girl who will never forgive. My mind is not adjusted to yours. I fall deep into my own problems. I don't want friends because I know I can't sustain them. I feel depressed, confused; why can I not forgive? Lonely. Crying. Suicidal thoughts. It goes on. Alone, angry a mix of emotions that play with my head and mess with my brain. Love is only a sadistic game. Happiness is irrelevant, never-lasting. I am the girl who never forgives.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg warm_guava
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    Why can't I forgive. Help me please, I am stuck in this void

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg compassionate_avocado
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I feel angry and alone all the time. My family and my friends just don’t understand! No one does. It was my birthday last week, you are probably thinking, and “why would someone need to complain about their birthday? You get cake and have a fun time with friends!” Well, no that was not my birthday. You see, it was half way through the party and my mum brought out my cake but just as she was bring it out our dog, Juno, walked in front of her. My mum being clumsy DROPPED my cake, I was fuming! She had ruined my birthday and the stupid dog had, so I yelled and yelled then stormed off to my room. I still haven’t apologised, in fact I haven’t spoken to her since, I don’t see why I need to it was her fault.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg observant_tangerine
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I think everyone is my enemy
    No one understands me
    I wish the could understand that if they disrespect me in any way I will take it personally
    They expect me to forgive them
    But they havent showed me that they wont do it agai
    Although I have many traits forgiveness isnt one of them
    Never have I had a friend that has lasted
    If only I could let inside my head
    show how difficult it is to be me
    It is there fault
    That all the nasty words dont bounce off but sink in
    Deep
    There the ones that bump me in the corridor
    The bruise remains
    But they wont accept it
    If thay could just listen
    they might understand
    help

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg calm_hedgehog
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    If I could not forgive I would feel deserted as with every relationship i made when the other person did anything wrong i would have to walk away. I would be hated by all around me, suspended from public and everyday life. Imagine, you walked away from your family,every friend you make gone and the thought that nothing in your life will ever be stable.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg strong_dolphin
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I want to forget, I wish I didn’t feel this way. I’m angry, really angry and nobody seems to understand. My family, my friends- they just shut me out. They say I’ve got a problem. Last week it was my birthday and my sister (who always gets jealous on other people’s birthdays) kicked my leg. It wasn’t a hard kick and it didn’t hurt but I was fuming. I still can’t seem to forgive her and I can’t forgive myself for lashing out. It’s upsetting to feel like this every day; and it’s scary too.
    I always been like this. For as long as I can remember. Once, when I was very young, my mum and dad took me to a quaint little café and I stormed out. I don’t know why. I felt frustrated and upset. I can’t forget but I wish that one day I’ll be able to.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg clever_atom
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I'd feel exasperated and angry, exasperated because everyone is chatting with their friends and I don't have any because I can't forgive anyone. I also feel angry because i'm annoyed at myself for not being able to forgive anyone.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg composed_photograph
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    She holds a permanent grudge against almost everyone because they laughed at a joke she didn't like or stood on her foot. She knows that her inability to forgive upsets many people around her and she hates herself for it. Unfortunately, she will never be able to forgive herself for this either.

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  • Faringdon-logo-250x250.jpg fantastic_duck
    Faringdon Community College 15 Jan 2019

    I can’t forgive. I am drowning in my own sorrow, despair and anger. All I want is peace. I want my head to be a calm, tranquil, forgiving pond but instead my head is filled with a storm of hate rising inside me. I can’t forgive others for their mistakes and I can’t forgive myself for my mistakes. We all make mistakes that is a fact of life. There is likely no person on Earth who hasn’t made a mistake nor a person on Earth that doesn’t long for forgiveness.
    Forgiveness, allows people happiness but with all the regret and pain of what I’ve done and others have done to me build up inside and leave little space for kindness, compassion or love. And that is the worst thing - without forgiveness I cannot feel the joy of love or happiness, as I am totally consumed by my own hate.

    -Sorry my last one was I think a few words over the limit so I have made some amendments and now it is within the limit of words.

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